The Diocese of Raleigh has an official statement on home-based catechesis (available on the Catechetical Resources page) that remains the standard for understanding for families and parishes on the matter.
Based on numerous inquires about the diocesan policy, we have decided to put together these Frequently Asked Questions to assist parishes and families in providing adequate formation for children.
Is attendance at parish-based sacramental preparation required by the Diocese of Raleigh?
No. Attendance at parish-based sacramental preparation is not required by the Diocese of Raleigh, but it is “strongly suggested.” The document is clear that parents “may choose home-based catechesis” for their sacramental preparation.
Why does the Diocese of Raleigh “strongly suggest” participation in parish-based sacramental preparation?
The reason for the strong encouragement to participate in parish-based sacramental preparation is given in terms of ensuring that children “participate fully in the life of the local church.” While it is the norm that Catholic homeschooling families are devout, involved in parish life, and attend Holy Mass frequently, the provision is concerned that home-based catechesis could be for some an opportunity to continue absence from the parish and sacraments.
Are there other ways that a home-based catechesis family can participate in the life of the parish?
The document mentions Sunday Eucharist in the local parish, involving themselves in its charitable works and attending formation sessions. Other examples include attending parish social events, participating in parish-based vacation Bible schools in the summer, participation in liturgical ministries (altar serving, choir, etc.) and attending parish spiritual-enrichment events such as adoration, processions, parish missions, etc. If you choose to provide sacramental preparation at home, you may need to establish your level of commitment and participation in the life of the parish with the pastor.
What process do I need to follow with the parish if I decide to opt for home-based catechesis?
Based on the diocesan policy, the process includes the following steps:
- Discern your ability to provide thorough and authentic faith formation for your children. Not every parent is blessed with the gift of teaching (1 Cor. 12:28-29). Also, it is no secret that many parents did not receive adequate and faithful catechesis themselves when they were formed for the sacraments. Our diocese is blessed to have many faithful and well-formed catechists in our parishes. Pray and discern if you are up to the task!
- "Parents must communicate their intention to provide home-based catechesis to the local pastor or parish catechetical leader (PCL)." This communication should happen before formal preparation for sacramental preparation is begun. For those parents preparing their children for first holy communion, you should communicate this to the parish no earlier than when your child begins first grade in accordance with diocesan norms.
- “The pastor or PCL will provide the parents with the applicable diocesan and parish expectations for catechesis and sacramental preparation. Responsibilities of both the home and the parish will be addressed.” The longstanding diocesan norms can be found here: https://dioceseofraleigh.org/faith-formation/sacramental-preparation. The pastor may indicate additional parish requirements up to his discretion.
- “The pastor or PCL will assist in the procurement of catechetical texts and resources and provide opportunities for formation and support.” The parish may require you to use the curriculum that is used in the parish-based program. This is up to the discretion of the pastor/PCL. Take advantage of the expertise of the PCL and let him/her help you discern which curriculum would be best for your home.
Will my parish evaluate the formation that I give at home?
The Code of Canon Law states the following:
- The administration of the Most Holy Eucharist to children requires that they have sufficient knowledge and careful preparation so that they understand the mystery of Christ according to their capacity and are able to receive the body of Christ with faith and devotion. (Can. 913 §1.)
- It is for the pastor to exercise vigilance so that children who have not attained the use of reason or whom he judges are not sufficiently disposed do not approach holy communion. (Can. 914)
It should be expected by parents that the pastor, or the person to whom he delegates the responsibility, will ensure that the child has received the aforementioned “sufficient knowledge and careful preparation” to receive holy communion for the first time. Indeed, it is the duty of the pastor to ensure that this evaluation takes place.
If parishes or families have any further questions regarding home-based catechesis, they can be directed to Mr. Patrick Ginty, Director of Faith Formation for the Diocese of Raleigh, patrick.ginty@raldioc.org.