School-at-home tips for parents

Organize the day for school-at-home

When you’re teaching at home, you’ll be more successful if you abandon the idea of replicating a regular school day and, instead, create an easy-to-learn routine. Imagine the day in blocks, divided by mealtimes that create natural breaks. Meals could be the anchors attached to the clock, since setting a designated breakfast, lunch and dinner time can help manage childrens’ expectations. Activities in between can be fluid to reflect that varying amount of time children need to accomplish the day’s goals. (Note: experienced homeschoolers say the kitchen should be “closed” between meals, to keep from daylong grazing that isn’t healthy and can get expensive.)

Up and at 'em!

While you don’t have to set the alarm for an early start as you would for a typical school day, establish a routine by choosing a regular time to start the day. Student athletes might begin with a short workout. Morning chores include making beds, picking up clothes, brushing teeth and getting dressed for the day. Children also can help the household by folding laundry, emptying the dishwasher, and walking the dog.

Breakfast and planning

Whether breakfast is a communal meal fixed by mom or another family member, or everyone prepares their own, begin the routine by sitting down together to pray, eat, and map out the day. Imagine this as a “team meeting” where the game plan is chalked out. Each child should leave the table with a list of tasks that needs to be accomplished during the day, as well as a review of longer-term assignments that might be worked on, but not completed. When the dishes are cleared and the table is clean, it’s time to start school.

Flexible schoolwork in the morning

Students in grades five through eight are capable of a fair amount of self-directed learning, especially in literature-based courses. For assignments that involve reading from textbooks or novels, they may only need a few minutes with a parent for direction. Depending on the number of children engaged in school-at-home, parents can decide to spend blocks of time with each one individually throughout the day, working on several subjects during their one-on-one time. In addition, since several children at home may be sharing a computer, the day may look different for each child — one may be working on schoolwork for the morning while another enjoys playtime until the laptop is free.

Participate in online learning

During this unprecedented public health crisis, schools have rallied to offer continuity of learning plans and online learning opportunities for students. Many teachers are sending daily emails with assignments that are due online. Whether they’re joining a Facebook Live class or watching a lesson previously recorded and posted to YouTube, students will likely be engaged with technology for big chunks of the day. For this reason, it’s even more important that children enjoy tech-free recreation when their schoolwork is done.

Playtime, exercise, games, music, and more

The school-from-home day ends much sooner than a typical school day, since working independently on assignments takes less time without the elements of structure that a school day requires. The result? You may announce “Class dismissed!” just in time for lunch, leaving the afternoon open for free play, board games, exercise, practicing an instrument, or engaging in a hobby. Keep in mind that fifth- through eighth-graders are extremely social creatures who need to keep up with friends through texts, calls and social media. Having time for this is a great incentive for a productive morning of schoolwork.

Make school-at-home memorable and fun for kindergarten — fourth graders

Years from now, younger children may not remember everything about the 2020 school year, when the coronavirus disrupted the world and sent them home for weeks of remote learning. But they may recall the memorable things their parents did to make the experience both educational and fun. Use these tips to harness the energy and curiosity of early-grade students:

Get moving!

If weather allows:

  • Go outside and use nature to help you learn
  • Create a scavenger hunt
  • Take a walk and talk about God’s creation
  • Work on gross motor skills by setting up a mini obstacle course, hopscotch, throw/kick a ball
  • Use sidewalk chalk to practice name writing, numbers and/or drawing

If weather is not ideal, adapt to the indoor environment:

  • Play tennis with paper plates and a balloon
  • Jump rope in the basement
  • Sort/build with Legos
  • Do science experiments inthe kitchen
  • Watch GoNoodle Movement and mindfulness videos at

Take brain breaks.

  • Play music and freeze dance
  • Do an online exercise class
  • Play Sparkle with counting or spelling words
  • Cook or bake together
  • Play board games, do a puzzle, paint or draw

Use technology productively.

  • Use online resources like ABCya, BrainPOP, ABC Mouse or Catholic Brain
  • Use FaceTime, Facebook Live or Zoom to connect with teachers and school friends
  • Since screen time use will go up for online learning, try to limit recreational screen time

Encourage self-directed learning.

  • Set up devoted spaces in your home for hands-on learning
  • Set out sensory bins, blocks, Play Doh, coloring sheets, etc. for free play
  • Let your child help to determine the schedule for the day
  • Post a checklist on the fridge for your child to track his or her own progress on assignments
  • Create Catholic crosswords and word search games online at

Go on a virtual field trip!

  • Lunch Doodles with Mo Willems — Kennedy Center
  • Daily animal visits and crafts from the Cincinnati Zoo and St. Louis Aquarium
  • Live webcams and STEM activities from NASA
  • Virtual museum tours, such as the White House or the Vatican!

Dos and Don’ts for high-school-at-home

Do make a schedule. Without the threat of tardies and detention, high-schoolers studying at home might not start their day until 11 a.m., but they can still have a schedule to help them feel secure. Set specific times for breakfast (or brunch!), lunch and dinner. Include times for online learning, homework, chores and socializing.

Do encourage your teen to get dressed, even if it’s switching from PJs to sweatpants. It might feel like an extended weekend, but online learning often includes video conferencing and virtual classrooms with students looking at each other and their teacher. Putting on an outfit that might normally be worn to hang out with friends, or go to practice, lets their brain know it’s time to wake up.

Do let your student talk to their friends. Whether through phone calls, FaceTime, a video conference, or interactive video games, find a way you are comfortable with for them to communicate with other students their age. Remember, most students are used to being with friends anywhere from seven to 12 hours a day (including after school activities and practice times). Letting them blow off some steam with friends suffering through the same circumstances can boost their mood and make them feel less isolated.

Do make sure you are connecting as a family during this time. It’s easy for everyone to be on their individual electronic devices, talking online to friends and doing their homework in isolation. Gather together at least once a day without electronics in a relaxed setting to eat, joke, share concerns, pray and express gratitude. You have a captive audience, it’s a great time for family movie nights and to share your favorite cookie recipes. When you make the cookies, eat them together!

Do pray for guidance. When you catch yourself being caught up in the stress of work and school and everything that usually happens in separate places, all going on at your kitchen island or dining room table, take a deep breath and ask the Holy Spirit to show you the next right thing you can do to keep your family moving in the right direction in this uncharted territory.

Don’t be too hard on yourself if your kids don’t keep their schedule. There will be another day to get yourself, and your teenager, back on track. With the uncertainty and anxiety over the coronavirus pandemic, you are teaching your child that it is OK to take a moment, or the day, to let yourself relax, be still, and find peace by just being together.

Don’t do the hard work for them. High school teachers and administrators often set up situations that are designed to encourage the students to be independent and responsible for their own work. Make sure that you are doing the same.

Don’t expect perfection, from yourself or your teen. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself to become a teacher or expert overnight on the subjects your teen is learning. Many teachers are offering online office hours and encourage students to ask them questions and discuss potential learning difficulties. If your child is struggling, encourage him or her to contact the teacher and seek out online educational resources.

Don’t forget to have compassion. Our students are critically aware of the unprecedented times they are living through. Many are mourning the loss of abandoned sports seasons, prom dates, daily interaction with friends and favorite teachers and maybe even their high school graduation. Now is the time to pray for patience, wisdom and the ability to understand there could be a real reason for all that teenage angst.

School-at-home can be fun with the help of online resources

Most teachers are providing excellent lesson plans for learning at home, but parents can add to those lessons with resources that encourage learning through games and educational videos. If your school-at-home day needs a boost, try these sites for something new!

Safe Search

Kid-Safe search engine


Beyond the Pew: Catholic Parenting Resource
Ablaze Ministries

Teaching Catholic Kids
Catholic parenting resource

Early childhood
PBS Kids
Games, activities

ABCmouse (Children preschool-2nd grade)
Educational activities
Enter School Code

Social Studies and Geography
Tour the States
Tour the States song

TIME for Kids
TIME news articles for kids

TED Talks for Kids
TED Talks to watch with kids

General Educational

Math Game Time
Math game

Highlights Magazine
Activities, jokes, games

Educational videos
Click on FREE Family Access, sign up with your email and follow instructions for access.

Amazon Audible
Free books for all students, no subscription necessary

Experiments, activities, videos on all subjects

ReadingIQ (Children Preschool-6th grade)
Educational activities
Enter School Code

Nat Geo Kids
National Geographic games, videos

How Stuff Works
Watch videos about how stuff works

Discover Nature Live Cams
Photos and videos of nature around Missouri

Google Earth
Satellite photos and videos of Earth

NASA Kids Club
NASA videos, games, photos, activities

Virtual Field Trips
Museum, zoo virtual tours

- FAITH Catholic